our morning starts
with time together
in a circle
we are quiet
we are calm
we are peaceful
three candles are lit
to signify each present
our singing bowl is heard
eyes are closed
all are still
a verse said in unity
moving stretching yoga begins
affirmations and a lesson hearned
cards are created using one word
to carry through their day
a book of virtues comes into play
a closing verse leaves our mouths
and the candles are blown out
this happens before any lessons start for the day
Please
by...Alicia Aspinwall
Webster's defines our manners
as our
"morals shown in conduct."
good people stick to good manners,"
as this story from
a turn-of-the-century reader reminds us.
There was once a little word
named "Please,"
that lived in a small boy's mouth.
Pleases live in everybody's mouth,
though people often forget they are there.
Now, all Pleases, to be kept strong and happy,
should be taken out of the mouth very often,
so they can get air.
should be taken out of the mouth very often,
so they can get air.
They are like little fish in a bowl, you know,
that come popping up to the top of the water to breathe.
The Please I am going to tell you about
lived in the mouth of a boy named Dick;
but only once in a long while
did it have a chance to get out.
For Dick, I am sorry to say, was a rude little boy;
lived in the mouth of a boy named Dick;
but only once in a long while
did it have a chance to get out.
For Dick, I am sorry to say, was a rude little boy;
he hardly ever remembered to say "Please."
"Give me some bread! I want some water!
Give me that book!"
that is the way he would ask for things.
Give me that book!"
that is the way he would ask for things.
His father and mother felt very bad about this.
And, as for the poor Please itself,
it would sit up on
it would sit up on
the roof of the boy's mouth day after day,
hoping for a chance to get out.
It was growing weaker and weaker every day.
This boy Dick had a brother, John.
Now, John was older than Dick
he was almost ten;
and he was just as polite as Dick was rude.
and he was just as polite as Dick was rude.
So his Please had plenty of fresh air,
and was strong and happy.
and was strong and happy.
One day at breakfast, Dick's Please felt
that he must have some fresh air,
even if he had to run away.
that he must have some fresh air,
even if he had to run away.
So out he ran out of Dick's mouth
and took a long breath.
Then he crept across the table
Then he crept across the table
and jumped into John's mouth!
The Please-who-lived-there was very angry.
"Get out!" he cried. "You don't belong here!
This is my mouth!"
This is my mouth!"
"I know it," replied Dick's Please.
"I live over there in that brother mouth.
But alas! I am not happy there.
I am never used.
"I live over there in that brother mouth.
But alas! I am not happy there.
I am never used.
I never get a breath of fresh air!
I thought you might be willing
to let me stay here for a day or so
until I felt stronger."
I thought you might be willing
to let me stay here for a day or so
until I felt stronger."
"Why, certainly," said the other Please, kindly.
"I understand. Stay, of course;
and when my master uses me,
we will both go out together.
He is kind, and I am sure
he would not mind saying 'Please' twice.
Stay, as long as you like."
"I understand. Stay, of course;
and when my master uses me,
we will both go out together.
He is kind, and I am sure
he would not mind saying 'Please' twice.
Stay, as long as you like."
That noon, at dinner,
John wanted some butter;
and this is what he said:
and this is what he said:
"Father, will you pass me the butter, please,please?"
"Certainly," said the father. "But why be so very polite?"
John did not answer.
He was turning to his mother, and said,
He was turning to his mother, and said,
"Mother, will you give me a muffin, please,please?"
His mother laughed.
"You shall have the muffin, dear;
but why do you say 'please' twice?"
"I don't know," answered John.
"The words seem just to jump out, somehow.
Katie, please,please, some water!
"This time, John was almost frightened.
"Well, well," said his father,
"there is no harm done.
"there is no harm done.
One can't be too 'pleasing' in this world."
All this time
little Dick had been calling,
"Give me an egg! I want some milk.
Give me a spoon!"
in the rude way he had.
But now he stopped
and listened to his brother.
little Dick had been calling,
"Give me an egg! I want some milk.
Give me a spoon!"
in the rude way he had.
But now he stopped
and listened to his brother.
He thought it would be fun
to try to talk like John;
to try to talk like John;
so he began,
"Mother, will you give me a muffin, m-m-m-?"
He was trying to say "please";
but how could he?
but how could he?
He never guessed
that his own little Please
that his own little Please
was sitting in John's mouth.
So he tried again, and asked for the butter.
"Mother, will you pass me the butter, m-m-m-?"
That was all he could say.
So it went on all day,
and everyone wondered
what was the matter with those two boys.
When night came, they were both so tired,
and Dick was so cross,
that their mother sent them to bed very early.
and everyone wondered
what was the matter with those two boys.
When night came, they were both so tired,
and Dick was so cross,
that their mother sent them to bed very early.
But the next morning,
no sooner had they sat down to breakfast
than Dick's Please ran home again.
He had had so much fresh air the day before
that now he was feeling quite strong and happy.
And the very next moment,
he had another airing; for Dick said,
no sooner had they sat down to breakfast
than Dick's Please ran home again.
He had had so much fresh air the day before
that now he was feeling quite strong and happy.
And the very next moment,
he had another airing; for Dick said,
"Father, will you cut my orange, please?"
Why! the word slipped out as easily as could be!
It sounded just as well as when John said it
John was saying only one "please" this morning.
And from that time on,
little Dick was just as polite as his brother.
Why! the word slipped out as easily as could be!
It sounded just as well as when John said it
John was saying only one "please" this morning.
And from that time on,
little Dick was just as polite as his brother.
after reading this story to my littles
one wee littlest one says
"i'm gonna talk like brother"
and funny thing is
this went on all throughout the day
PLEASE...was getting plenty of fresh air
and I even received a few words below
PLEASE...was getting plenty of fresh air
and I even received a few words below
"uh...mama...you forgot to say PLEASE"
if i had only known this story would be the key
a gentle reminder
~to remember & use such word~
i would have read it long ago


7 comments:
Just goes to show the power of a good story!
The Universe is talking to me. Last night at dinner The Boy and I were talking about school and the song they sang prior to eating their lunch in preschool. It was called "Please and Thank You". Perhaps a lesson to remember to honor those around us.
Beautiful post...wonderful..and gorgeous photo!
Victoria
I've so missed your posting, the changes look great! and I see you are using your given name. Are you out of the craft? just curious :)
FaerWillow (Brandi), come visit my 2nd blogoversary celebration and huge giveaway. please help spread the word also!
http://piecesoffatesusan.blogspot.com/
I hope you and yours are doing well!
After this I hope to start being able to visit more of my bloggy friends more often.
BB,
Susan
This is wonderful! We work on our pleases everyday, my little ones and I. Do you homeschool? We will start next school year so we have more time for morning rituals like this. Have a blessed weekend full of pleases and even more thank yous :)
what a beautiful, beautiful ritual you have to start your day...
*sigh*
but that doesn't surprise me one bit....
much love to you and your sweet wee ones...xo
Please, please keep the blog posts coming :)
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